Top gay guys - bottom cant get it up, do you still have fun?

i'm a total top, and i guess i like to know for sure if my bottom boy is having fun and getting off, so i like them to be hard. but if not, i still have a good time. some bottoms might be so focused on the pleasure they're receiving y, that they just don't get hard for some reason. some bottoms don't care at all about the stimulation of their .