My boyfriend was almost at the point of tears lastnight because he can't make me ?

Yesterday my boyfriend and I had for the first time in like 2 weeks, we have really good and it's very pleasurable. We were doing it on my desk and I was getting really into it and I was feeling really good because I had a lot of stress and I felt like I was letting it all out, I felt so good I thought I'd give him a little treat and ride him, so I pushed him over to the bed and tried to get ontop, after a few times of struggling to get it in I gave up, he wasen't really hard. I was extremley dissapointed because this isen't the first time it's happened, its like the 3rd. And I felt like all the stress I thought I was just letting off just came back on me 10x worse. I was really stressed out and we weren't really talking for about 45 minutes, we were more just sitting/lying down on my bed almost in complete silence. I was just itching to have or to do SOMETHING! After a while he starts rubbing my , it felt sort of good, and I just went for it because usually when guys try to rub my they're way off, and he was kind of on point so i let him.. a few times it was over-stimulating and my body twitched, (he probably took that for feeling good.) after 10 minutes he stopped and I gave him a hj and bj and he busted on my face, i went to the bathroom washed it off, and came back. I was still unsatisfied because I still had not came. He was on the bed lying down out of breath and usually after we do something im all giggly and happy, and I wasen't. he said "how are you still not satisfied??" I was confused because HE had been the one to *** not me. and I told him that and he was under the impression that I had came, infact: all the times we had he thought when I screamed or told him I coulden't take it anymore, he thought I had came. I told him he never made me *** before and he was absoloutley mortified to the point of tears, and I've never seen him cry, he said he felt like this was the one thing he was really good at and he said he was equivalent to ****. i tried to tell him most girls cant climax from and a few other things but he said I had made him feel worse. He's never gone down on me or rubbed my long or well enough to the point of soo wtff ? how does he expect me to *** if he doesnt do anythingg, help plz