What are nonbelievers and non Christians so angry about?

I don't believe in hate but zeal is a godly attribute. Love comes in many forms such as Jesus driving the money changers out of the temple.(The zeal of thy house hath eaten me up) We have expounded sloppy Agape so long we have forgotten that God is first and foremost Holy. "Twas grace that taught my heart to FEAR. And grace my fears relieved.